March
21, 2022
Greetings
from the witness,
Jack opened
the front door and welcomed me in. He
wore a suit and tie, which is all I’ve ever seen him wear. His clothes were from a generation before,
but were good quality, and well pressed.
He was a slight man, made more so by the eight decades, but the suit
gave him some size, and a formal dignity.
We stepped into
a generous foyer, and he said the proper things that a gracious host says, and
called out “Lily, our guest is here.” He
walked ahead of me a few steps, and then turned and took the arm of a small,
plump woman, coming down the hall. “This
is my bride, Lily.”
There was
something remarkable about this moment, a tiny glimpse into a marriage of more
decades than I had been alive. The two
of them, both smiling, not only at me, but in delight at being together.
Lily gushed,
welcomed me to their home, her words lightly accented from another language,
long left behind. She wore a dress, a fashion
bookend to her husband. Her hair was
parted sharply, dark brown with a henna tone, held in place by a small pin.
She invited me
to the kitchen where she had been cooking and had me sit at a small table. She served us all coffee, strong and dark in delicate
porcelain cups. She offered me a plate
of the dessert she had been making, something sweet and chewy, honey and dates
and almonds.
In whatever
time dissolved around that table, we sat sipping coffee and becoming friends. We
talked about family, about our community, Jack seasoning the conversation with
well used clips of wisdom for his younger admirer. The kitchen was cozy, and even as we sat
there in our Sunday Best, I felt relaxed and welcomed.
Lily shooed us
out of the kitchen while she tidied up, and Jack took me to the lower level,
showed me his office, “Where I make my calls…and so on.” It was a man’s warren, with a desk and the
usual bit of clutter. The walls were lined
with awards and plaques and commendations, photos of him shaking hands with
dignitaries. We talked of his passions, his
faith, a little of his history, which was a much more complicated tapestry than
could be covered in one afternoon.
We left his den
and soon I was a little lost, making our way through the halls. The house, which from the street was
imposing, was larger than I thought. We
went back to the kitchen, where I thought I might say my goodbyes. Jack stood next to his wife for a moment, his
hand gently on her shoulder. She turned
to me.
“Would you
like to see the house?” Lily asked. She
was smiling, radiating the message. “Of
course,” I said. “I would love to.”
We wound
through the foyer again, made our way up the stairs and through hallways, past
bedrooms and the ‘servant’s stairway’. “Of course, we never had servants.” Jack
was quick to say. I was dutifully
impressed with the décor and the furniture, the rugs and art. Lily was proud of their home, a small indulgence
for the two of them, whose lives were themes of humility and service.
We arrived
back on the main floor and walked through a spacious living room, lined with
ornate furniture, a formal room, with brocade, lace, and patterned pillows. They
showed me things they had collected or been given, said the names of the people
in the paintings and photographs. We
admired the things together, and the two of them shared pieces of their history.
After the
conversation seemed to settle, I stepped back toward the foyer, took a breath
to thank them for their hospitality. I
turned to face them, and Lily stepped up, holding her hands out.
She looked up
at me, a little flushed, slightly breathless.
“Would you like to see the house?” she asked.
I hesitated just
a moment and turned to Jack. There, in
the eyes of one of the kindest people I’ve met, was a deeper tenderness, one
born of a lifetime of love and devotion.
His face did not change, and he made no sign that his wife had said anything
remarkable.
“Of course,” I
said to Lily, “I would love to.” I glanced
at Jack for just a moment, and saw a faint smile, and nothing else.
We followed
Lily back through their home, as she guided us through the story of their
family. This piece of furniture, this
painting, a gift from a friend, a memento from a wonderful trip. Here is the hallway with pictures of family,
the elegant rugs, the neat bedrooms, the servant’s stairway.
In time we were
standing in the living room again, admiring the elaborate furniture, the art,
the keepsakes. I complimented Lily on her
taste, and her rich hospitality. She
smiled, blushed beneath her heavy makeup.
Jack walked me to the foyer and shook my hand, looked me in the eyes and
thanked me. A moment later Lily was
there with a plate of the sweet dessert to take with me.
I turned to
wave at them, framed in the front door, two people who allowed me a glimpse of the
life they shared. Behind them stretched
myriad halls of experience, which showed in the way they held each other
beneath the limestone and brick arch.
There are many
who knew Jack and Lily better than I did.
This vignette, thirty years ago, sees them after nearly sixty years of
marriage, lives of challenge and victory and heartbreak and love, and love, and
love. They are both gone on to another
place now, and the world spins on, changes, grows and groans without them. But not without the mark they made here.
The love they
shared, what I saw in that tiny slice of time, was stronger than the frailties
of living, stronger than the limits of a lifetime. I know, in my own heart,
they loved each other forever, and forever and for whatever comes after.
Hope
this finds you believing,
David
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© 2022 David Smith
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